How to Decline a Friend's MLM or Sales Pitch
Your friend just invited you to a "business opportunity" or wants you to buy their products. You want to say no without damaging the friendship. It is possible — you just need to be direct and kind.
Best Way to Decline
RecommendedHey [Name], I appreciate you thinking of me! That is not really something I am interested in right now, but I hope it goes well for you. Let me know when you are free to just hang out — I miss catching up!
Alternative Versions
Short & Direct Version
directThanks for thinking of me, but I am not interested. Hope it goes well for you though!
Warmer Version
warmHey [Name]! I appreciate you sharing this with me — it sounds like you are really excited about it and that is cool. It is just not my thing, but that does not change anything between us. When are we actually hanging out next? I miss just catching up with you.
Polite Version
politeHi [Name], thank you for thinking of me for this opportunity. After considering it, I have decided it is not the right fit for me at this time. I wish you all the best with it! I would love to get together soon for just a regular catch-up if you are free.
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When to Use This
Use this when a friend pitches you on a multi-level marketing opportunity, direct sales product, or asks you to attend a "party" that is actually a sales event.
What Not to Say
Do not lecture them about MLMs or say "That is a pyramid scheme." Even if you think it, it will only make them defensive. A simple no is enough.