Dating

How to Admit You Like Someone by Text

Telling someone you have feelings for them is terrifying. But the regret of never saying it is usually worse. Here's how to put it out there.

Brave & Real

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Okay, I'm just going to say it — I really like you. Not in a casual way. I think about you a lot and I wanted you to know. No pressure on what that means — I just didn't want to keep it to myself anymore.

Alternative Versions

Heart-on-Sleeve

warm

So, this is probably obvious by now, but I like you. A lot. I just wanted to say it out loud for once instead of playing it cool.

No Games

direct

I'm into you. Figured you should know.

Thoughtful Confession

polite

I've been wanting to tell you something. I've developed real feelings for you, and rather than keep that to myself, I wanted you to hear it from me. No expectations attached.

Confident Declaration

firm

I'm not going to dance around it. You make me feel something I haven't felt in a while, and I'd be kicking myself if I didn't tell you.

When to Use This

Send this when you're fairly sure there's mutual interest, or when you just can't hold it in anymore. There's no perfect time. Do it when you can handle any answer, not when you're hoping for a specific one.

What Not to Say

Don't say it during an argument or after too many drinks. Don't write a poetic essay — keep it real. And don't immediately follow up with "forget I said that" — own it.

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